Last Night's Losses

Off-Year Elections? Who knew... the few elections didn't really count. And were won by the front-runners anyway. Only sad part about them, was the fact that they were all GOP wins. Even though the democratic candidates didn't seem any better, I just usually hope for the lesser of two evils. However, the one main issue yesterday being voted on, was in Maine.

Question 1 on the ballot was a measure to repeal the law allowing same-sex marraige. Throughout the past 7 or so months, I've been volunteering at the HRC. ITs mostly been phonebanking, calling voters in various places getting their opinion on whatever local issue and hopefully getting their support. Its been interesting. I feel like it sorta puts me out there to see what is going on, and gives me an opportunity to help. It also helps me figure out my own feelings about whatever issue. So for the past few months we've been calling Maine voters, identifying supporters and either soliciting donations or finding volunteers. Certain nights felt productive, and a couple times... it was a little more hostile. It was what it was, and I'm glad I was able to take part in it. Although, by taking part in it, and seeing the optimism of the other volunteers... it just made the loss somewhat worse.

I guess, the point of this blog would be to understand why? What was the reason for why it was overturned by 53% of the voters.

- Is it too soon to expect that kind of social change?
- Are the gays being selfish in wanting this change amidst the current global economic, environmental and healthcare issues on the table?
- Does it need to be called "marraige"?
- Did the gay community go about the campaign in the wrong way? Instead of saying we want equality, in this way, now. Should they have been approaching the other side in a spirit of discussion rather that of accusation?
- Does the gay community make it easier for the opposition to use scare tactics and fear to reach their voters?
- Is there a way to bridge the gap being a socially conservative rural Maine resident and a gay liberal urbanite that allows compromise? or is it just a dream?

In looking at some of the comments and/or statuses and/or blogs that some have written after the fact. Are our feelings even justified? Most of us don't live in Maine. Have any of us, done anything to even help their cause? Are we doing anything to help what happening in DC? Can we do anything to help? If you had the opportunity would you? Is it a cause we even truly believe is worth it?

Lots of questions... anyone got any answers, perspectives, ideas ??