Wednesday, July 2, 2008

New Years Resolutions... Revisited

And just like that... half the year is gone. As I think about the past months, I revisit the 6 personal resolutions/goals I made way back in January.

1. I will define my ethics, morals, dreams, and goals. And DO what needs to be done, to BE who I need to.
Well, I didn't proactive "define" things. So I may have slacked off a few times on this one. But as time passes, I'll do better.

2. I need to congratulate myself when credit is due, and be proud of who I am and what I have done right.
- I'm not fully sure what the "goal" was here. But I think I've been a little better at accepting myself, tho a few fears/resistances do remain.

3. I will figure out what my "type" is, and learn how to be honest about what I want and open with what may not work...
- I'm still a little unsure, but I'm definitely being able to filter things out that I do NOT want. I've gone through trial and error, so this was a good success.

4. I need to schedule priorities and tasks, and do them regardless of those circumstances.
- Well, I have been making more decisions and just going regardless of the time, money, weather, and excuses to people. So i'm closer to my goals, here as well.

5. I need to treat str8 friends the way they deserve even if I may not be able to be completely open with them.
- Considering I've barely hung out with them in the past 1.5 months... I may be slipping in this department, but in time I may regain balance.

6. I need to start to see friends for how they want to be seen.
- A hard lesson to learn. But I'm just getting the hang of it. Especially as I was trying to get people to give input for my bday. I realized I'm wanting certain people to be better friends than they really are. But I have also met some new-ish people who can show the truth about themselves.


So three I have made positive progress in, and three not so much. So as the rest of the year progresses, I've got those goals to work on.

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